When it comes to anal beads there are a few things you need to keep in mind! Anuses aren’t like vaginas … they have no ‘ending’ and things can get lost up there (which they often do). So, whenever it comes to sexy butt stuff time you need to make sure you’re prepared!

Choosing the Right Toy

As I mentioned previously, things can get lost when venturing through the back door into the land beyond. The rectum doesn’t have an ending in the same way the vagina does. It also has a nasty habit of acting a bit like a vacuum in that it can ‘suck’ things up into itself. In order to avoid an embarrassing trip to the emergency department, make sure your set of anal beads has a pull ring so you can remove the beads easily.

Secondly, it is important to choose an anal sex toy made from a body-safe material. Body-safe means a non-porous material that cannot harbour bacteria, like glass or metal. When it comes to anal play, however, most people prefer a toy made of silicone as it is more comfortable for insertion and removal.

Choosing the Right Lube

Now, if you’ve read any of my articles before, you’ll know how often I sing the praises of personal lubricant! Lube is great and in most cases you can never have too much! So if you plan to use or wear anal beads, you’re definitely going to need some lube. The rectum, unlike the vagina, doesn’t produce its own lubricant, so it is important that you apply liberally in the beginning and reapply as necessary. What kind of lube you use depends on what kind of material your anal beads are made from. As a rule, water-based lubes go with everything. Water-based lubes won’t interact with any other materials your sex toys may be made out of. Silicone-based lube, on the other hand, lasts longer and is great for sexual activities like anal play where no natural lubrication will be provided.

Getting Warmed Up

Now, it’s time! You’ve got your anal beads, you’ve chosen the right lube and you just want to get down and dirty! It’s important to go slow when using toys like a butt plug or anal beads. The best way to warm yourself up is by lubing up one finger and inserting it until you feel comfortable, then gradually increase the number of fingers you use until you feel like you can accommodate the size of beads you want to use. Slowly insert the beads one by one until they are all in. Then, all you have to do is enjoy! When it comes to removing your toy, start by gently pulling the beads via their handle or pull ring. Emphasis on SLOWLY. You don’t need to do it like you’re trying to start a chainsaw! If things are proving a wee bit uncomfortable, add more lube and do some deep breathing. Sometimes the sphincter muscles contract involuntarily when you’re stressed. This inevitably makes it harder to remove the beads!

There you go! You’re now ready to go when it comes to using anal beads. Now, go forth, young Padawan. Enjoy the world of anal play and all the toys that come with it!