Many men, or penis owners, might feel reluctant to try butt play. It sounds great in theory, but having something or someone near your rear end can be a bit nerve-wrecking when it comes down to it!
Anal play can be super enjoyable for everyone, however for those with a prostate, it can be particularly intense (in a good way!).
You might have heard about the amazing orgasms that stimulating the prostate can achieve, and even health benefits, but it might not be something you have explored yet. Well that's about to change! Here is everything you need to know about stimulating the prostate, P-spot orgasms, and more...
It's totally okay to be questioning what a P-Spot even is. Unfortunately, Sex Ed in high school doesn't cover anything about pleasure, so if you're feeling a little clueless, you're not alone!
The "P" in P-Spot stands for prostate, which is a gland located below the bladder. While it can open up a whole new world of pleasure, the prostate's main purpose is to create a fluid that helps protect sperm. The fluid is then expelled with sperm during ejaculation, and becomes what we know as semen!
The prostate has a LOT of nerve endings, making it a very pleasurable spot to stimulate. Some people can even orgasm from prostate play alone!
There are some super important steps you need to take to prepare for stimulating the prostate! This will ensure you can focus on enjoying yourself and avoid any pain or discomfort that might occur. Firstly, it's vital to understand that while anal play can be a little uncomfortable at times, it should never be painful. If you're experiencing pain, it's best to stop for a break, and maybe try again a little later.
Relaxation is key. It's normal to feel a little nervous and tense going into things, but try your best to relax your mind and muscles before you get started.
Make sure you, or your partner, have trimmed nails and remove any jewelry before getting started too. While prostate play generally doesn't involve deep penetration, it's normal to be worried about any mess occurring. Make sure you empty your bowels before play, and if you're still worried, you can use an enema for more peace of mind.
Lubricant will be your best friend when it comes to anything butt-related. Because the anus does not self-lubricate, you'll want to ensure you lather up with plenty of lube to help everything slip in easily.
Stimulating the prostate, or P-spot, can actually be done internally or externally. Stimulating it via the anus, or internally, is the most direct way. The prostate is about 2 inches inside the rectum, and you can stimulate it using a "come hither" motion - just like stimulating the G-spot! Insert your finger and press it forward against the wall of the perineum. You will know you've found it when your finger presses against something that feels like a walnut.
For a less intrusive option, or if you aren't quite ready for internal stimulation, you can indirectly stimulate the prostate via the perineum. This is the skin that is between the scrotum and anus, and can feel really great too!
However you decide to stimulate it, the key is playing around and figuring out what feels good for you! Try some different motions, apply a little more or less pressure, and generally enjoy exploring your body. Pleasurable prostate stimulation will look different for everyone!
You might have heard the phrase "milking" the prostate before. This refers to massaging the prostate until a milky fluid comes out. This fluid is known as prostatic fluid, which is pretty much the same as semen, without the sperm. The term "milking" also comes from the movement used to stimulate the prostate, which is the massaging motion you'll likely use. Milking typically leads to orgasm as well - if you notice the milky fluid, it's a good sign to keep doing what you're doing!
Prostate massages are actually linked to some health benefits too! They have been known to help improve erectile dysfunction, urine flow, relieve symptoms of prostate-related health problems, and more. Plus, regular orgasms are linked to improved mental and physical health too, so what's not to love?!
Luckily for us, there are loads of sex toys that can also help stimulate the prostate successfully!
The sleek Dr Joel Kaplan Prostate Stimulator is a power-packed stimulator designed for intensely pleasurable prostate stimulation. With 5 speeds to choose between, velvety smooth material, and an ergonomically contoured shaft, this toy is guaranteed to add more fun to your playtime.
Sir Richards Elements Prostate Massager is another great pick, with a unique design formulate for pleasure, and powerful yet quiet vibrations to satisfy every need. The product is USB rechargeable with 5 power levels and multiple functions to enjoy.
The Explorer II Prostate Stimulator and Cock Ring has a cock ring that fits securely at the base of the penis, and prostate plug for intense pleasure. Made from premium silicone, this toy feels great and is designed with your pleasure in mind.
The Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager has 8 settings, exclusive SenseMotion technology, smooth silicone, and powerful vibrations across 2 motors. It's designed for next level prostate stimulation.
Now that you know what milking the p-spot is all about, learn how to achieve a prostate orgasm using anal toys and start exploring today!
Maybe you're not quite ready for prostate play. That's okay!
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