Ever heard of a sex bucket list? Or a "f##ckit list"? Well, if you haven't now is your chance to make one. A bucket list is a list of things you'd like to do before you die, named in recognition of the term " to kick the bucket".
A sex bucket list is a way to tick off and try out some fun things that have always made you curious and aroused! Here's our list of things you could try before you die to add a bit of excitment to your life.
Ever thought about trying a little bondage? We have many bondage beginner kits. The Fetish Fantasy kit has four velvet cuffs with nylon ties, two candles, a soft feather tickler and a satin blindfold. Or you could get some retraints for your bed and use the toys you already have to tease and tempt your partner. Before you start though - make sure you're both on the same page. You need to feel completely safe and you need to be able to trust your partner. Pick a safe word but also decide well in advance what you do and don't want - using a vibrator vaginally yes! Using a vibrator anally no! You pick the rules. You can start really safe by just tickling and light spanking before untying and coming together (literally!)
Always been a little curious about butt stuff? You don't have to try with a partner or jump right in the deep end so to speak. Just grab one of our beginner anal kits and have a play with yourself! Start small. Real small. Slowly work your way up if you wish. Make sure you use heaps and heaps of lube - use Uberlube if your toy isn't silicone and System Jo Anal lube if it is - take it slow. If you love it - you can explore different plugs, vibrating anal toys, and anal penetration.
Pegging is the wonderful act for women where they penetrate their usually male partner anally with a strap-on dildo. Advice columnist Dan Savage wrote that he believes all men should try pegging at least once, as it may introduce them to a new enjoyable sexual activity and give them insight into what it feels like to recieve.
We have many pegging toy options - from harnesses (including larger sizes and underwear) to internal dildos. Take it slow and use heaps of anal lube so your partner feels comfortable. Don't use anything with a densensitising agent as your partner will need to feel what's happening and listen to what their body is telling them. Pain is your body's way of saying stop or slow down.
Wax play is a fun activity that brings all of the senses into play. Grab a blind fold and some special wax play candles and get hot and heavy!
Before you get down to business and try out your candles, set some ground rules with your partner - what are you comfortable with? What will you do if you're uncomfortable? Do you need a safe word?
Next up you need to set up your "play space". It needs to be clear - no clutter! Look around, what could catch fire? Make sure nothing is around that will go up in flames! You'll also need a fire extinguisher or a bucket of water. I know it doesn't sound very sexy but it's definitely not sexy having your house burn down.
Your third step before getting down to business is to make sure you have the right candle. Candles made for wax play are soft and have a lower melting point which means when they touch your skill it's like a hot lick not a million fire ants destroying your genitals. Other candles have an awful mix of chemicals in them to make them smell nice or look nice. You don't want that on your skin. Don't ever use beeswax and it gets far too hot - you will get serious burns.
Finally - try the candle on your own skin, and have your partner do the same. Try it in three places - the palm of your hand, your inner thigh, and your tummy. Wait, see how your body reacts. If you're hairy - for obvious reasons consider shaving!
Drip it onto your chest, nipples, breasts, tummy and arms. Surprise your partner with some sensual play.
There are many ways to approach double penetration. Usually DP is about filling your anus and vagina, but it can also be about having two penises in your vagina or anus. If you're not wanting to introduce a new partner - the good news is that you don't have to!
We sell four types of products to meet all of your DP needs.
Just pop it on and you're good to go! The Double Fun Cock Ring is great for beginners because its vibrating anal attachment is really small. While you penetrate your partner vaginally, this beaded attachment will go to work anally, providing thrilling vibration. The firm silicone material will stay stiff, while providing a mild stretch for maximum erection enhancement. The tip is tapered for comfortable insertion, while the beaded shaft stimulates with every stroke. You could also try a harness if you're not comfortable with a ring. Some harnesses come with a hollow dildo for you to put your penis into. If your partner doesn't have a penis you can try the Beginner DP Strap On Kit.
There are three kinds - one that has two dildos in one that can be inserted into the anus and vagina at the same time, one that has two dildos in one, side-by-side to penetrate the anus or vagina together, and another that is a U-shape to reach around.
There are some really innovative hands free vibrators on the market, many with remote control for double stimulation. The Adrien Lastic DP toy is a great beginner toy. The Beaded DP Rabbit also gives you the opportunity to stimulate your clitoris at the same time.
Double penetration doesn't have to involve thrusting. You can buy a beginner butt plug and insert it before sex for that full feeling. The B-Vibe Snug Plug is great for this. The Snug Plug 1 is an ultra-comfortable, 55-gram weighted butt plug that is designed to provide a sensual feeling of fullness.
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